My 15 year old once said, “Mom, I don’t think there’s a guy out there for me.”
“Do you believe in true love?” I asked, remembering she once gave a full page description of her future partner at the age of nine.
“Yes.”
“Great. Why?”
“Because of you and Daddy. But you two are special. There’s no one else like you guys.”
“Ok. But if we exist, don’t you think others can exist too?”
“I guess.”
I smiled. “While you are growing now, there is a soul out there preparing to receive you just as you are preparing to receive them.”
“So like soulmates? What’s that like?”
“Like he’s the sun and stars of my life and I’m the moon of his life. Together we are each other’s universe.” We both grinned at my Game of Thrones reference. “Your soulmate will love you unconditionally. His presence will make you feel at home, you both are a part of twin flames. But in order to attract him, you have to believe his existence first.”
Samuel is my soulmate. Today, we are celebrating our 30th anniversary.
How do I feel about being with my soulmate for thirty years?
It is a feeling of certainty.
Having a soulmate is my best friend of life who will never leave me, who accepts me as I am — even the not too pretty side of me that I don’t want to admit is there.
Having a soulmate is a total feeling of love and connectedness. Through a soul contact, we are forever binded together as one — we are one — for the greater good.
Having a soulmate is a soft warm blanket on cold winter days wrapped around me.
Having a soulmate is the top chess players in the world helping me improve the game of life.
Having a soulmate is the best entertainer bringing the playful inner child out of me.
Soulmates are space holders for each other. Soulmates are cheerleaders for each other. Soulmates are each other's battery power. Soulmates are equals to each other.
Your soulmate will always grow with you because they are a part of your soul. They always lift you up, see the best in you, love you and nurture you like you are part of them.
People make mistakes, but as soulmates, you never hold them at fault. You want to bring the best of you out for your soulmate.
Can a person be happy without their soulmate?
Yes. Everyone is born whole on our own, but when you have your soulmate by your side, it’s like you have the best traveling buddy on the journey of life. You both take turns driving the car. You both design the routine for the journey.
Life is meant to be shared. Human emotions are meant to be shared. With a soulmate comes more depth, intensity, joy, total let go; another layer of richness in emotion.
It is my sincere wish everyone believes there is a soulmate born for them. It takes faith to believe you will meet and magnify each other in a most unique way that only you two will experience together. Life is double the joy and intensity when you have a soulmate.
I am not kidding when I say Samuel made me who I am today. I was a young woman when I first met my man, a 20-year-old college student, full of dreams for my life. Now for the past 30 years, I have been living my dream every day. I thank Divine for giving me this man.
My soulmate is a masculine guy in a quiet way. His macho does not show up in loud shouts, but instead in a solid, grounded, Buddha-like Zen way. He continues to fascinate me. He has been building up physically, now he has grown his chest muscles like how he grows our flower garden! Pleasing to the eyes, nourishing to the soul.
Every day I wake up and lay my cheek on his chest, listen to his heart beat and feel the deep warm connection from my heart to his.
Nothing is permanent, only our souls are permanent. Soulmates are mates for the souls.
I am your mate and you are mine. Our best life together has yet to come.
Love,
WeiLi